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Brooke's avatar

I am a small business consultant and I will give my two cents. The behavior you are describing is actually criminal. False reporting and blocking people’s way, trespassing etc. I understand you are a kind person. However, getting a restraining order and enforcing it is necessary. There appears to be an escalation as well. I will happily order goods to support you. Now do something for me. Please file a complaint with the ACLU. Your civil rights are likely being violated.

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Elizabeth Allen's avatar

I am a small business owner who has been through something similar, while not exactly the same. Continue to document everything. Provide pictures and videos when applicable. If you don’t already have both an indoor and outdoor security system, install one. I may actually have one from our previous business location that you’re more than welcome to if I can track it down. Now that you’ve sent a cease and desist, don’t engage…at all and ask your employees to do the same. Any engagement at all adds fuel to the fire. Ensure any communication between you and the salon is in writing. If verbal communication is occurring, make them aware you will be recording it for legal purposes to protect you both. If they decline, end the conversation and ask them to leave your premises. The more visual and audio documentation you have, the more substantiated your claims. Because of the amount of communication and the frequency of the communication from the salon, it is treading a very fine line of the legal definition of harassment. Very fine line. I think it’s important to know: is the salon a low-tox environment and are they using low-tox materials that reflect that? Are their hairsprays labeled as “low VOC formulas?”

Are they using pump spray products rather than aerosols (to reduce inhalation risk)?

Are their hair straighteners free of formaldehyde or methylene glycol? The alleged risk of scents coming from your business should not be examined without also looking at the toxicity of scents in their own environment. The alleged cause of scents cannot be determined with only looking at one environment. I think it’s very wise you chose not to name the facility and allowed them to do that on their own. Now, the ownership of identification is attributed to their own actions. As a fellow female business owner and a friend of one of your customers, I would love to talk with you and see if I can help in any way.

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